For LGBTQIA+ folks, it's common for the concepts of happiness and safety to become intertwined. In a world that frequently feels unsafe and filled with stressors for minorities, feeling safe certainly feels great! However, safety isn't the same as happiness, so let's work on distinguishing between the two. Think about the last time you walked into a first day — a new job, a new class, a first session at a new gym. You get through it. Nobody said anything inappropriate. You fo